Take me out with the crowd.
Buy me some peanuts and Cracker Jack,
I don't care if I never get back,
Let me root, root, root for the home team,
If they don't win it's a shame.
For it's one, two, three strikes, you're out,
At the old ball game.
Monday, May 12
Tigers Game!
Take me out to the ball game,
Take me out with the crowd.
Buy me some peanuts and Cracker Jack,
I don't care if I never get back,
Let me root, root, root for the home team,
If they don't win it's a shame.
For it's one, two, three strikes, you're out,
At the old ball game.
Take me out with the crowd.
Buy me some peanuts and Cracker Jack,
I don't care if I never get back,
Let me root, root, root for the home team,
If they don't win it's a shame.
For it's one, two, three strikes, you're out,
At the old ball game.
Sunday, May 11
Happy Mother's Day
Happy Mother's Day to all of the moms out there.... especially the best one in the whole wide world... mine. :)
Saturday, May 10
Referral Update
Referrals arrived last week. CCAA completed 3 days. They have placed children with families whose log in dates are through January 12, 2006.
Sunday, May 4
Happy 4th Birthday Luca!
My baby turned 4 today.
Luca entered this world with the same determination and uniqueness that he possesses today. He was born 12 days early. I was not expecting him quite so soon. My first born was only 1 day early so when I started feeling some mild contractions I blew them off. I had just started my maternity leave from school... taking the last six weeks off before summer vacation. I started my maternity leave two weeks before I was due. This would give me two weeks to get everything "just so" before his arrival. I remember being even a bit annoyed that I was having more Braxton Hicks... they were happening quite often for the few weeks leading up to his birth. My mom was in town and staying with us. Adrian was sleeping and my mom, Ron and I were all watching a movie. Out of frustration I told Ron that I was having false labor again. I was in no pain but could feel my belly tightening off and on. This went on for a while and my mom began to get nervous. Finally she begged.. I mean talked me into going to the hospital just to get checked out. I still wasn't in any pain but they had lasted for maybe an hour and were getting kind of regular. Maybe I was in denial... I had been dreading the delivery all along. I went upstairs to take a quick shower before we left for the hospital. While in the shower I was still letting Ron know when the contractions were starting just to keep a log to show the doctor. BAM! Within one contraction I went from 5 minutes apart to 3 minutes apart!!!!! Oh, and they were no longer pain free. Oh no... my mom was right ! :) My bag isn't packed... I'm not ready.... I was supposed to have two weeks to do this... my house is a mess... OH NOOOOOOOO! Now I am running around my bedroom throwing things into a bag in-between contractions. Ron and I then jump into the car and are on the way to the hospital. The contractions are now VERY INTENSE. It's a good thing that it is nighttime and not rush hour traffic. Ron was literally running red lights... it was like out of a movie!!!!!! I remember telling Ron in the car that I knew that my worst fear was going to come true and that it was going to be too late for an epidural. We finally make it to the hospital and enter the doors. We are greeted by a very nice elderly gentleman who is to wheel me upstairs in a wheelchair. I am now in full on labor... can't talk, can't think, can't move kind. I think that he was trying to give me a very smooth and gentle ride because he was walking me at a snails pace. I was praying that the baby wasn't going to come out on the elevator with this poor old man with me! He rolls me into triage. TRIAGE????? What, do you think I lying??? Do you think I'm faking??? Do you think I don't know what is happening??? I couldn't believe it!!!!!!! The first thing I tell the nurse is that I am having this baby and I need an epidural NOW!!!!!!! I was told that first I needed to pee in a cup and then they would take a look at me. These were the longest moments of my life. Finally she came in, checked me out, and agreed that I was in labor...thank you very much. She asks if I want to be wheeled down to my room. Thinking about my ride up to triage I opted to walk... yes walk. I walked as briskly as a 9 month pregnant woman in labor can possibly walk. At one point the nurse told me to relax and slow down. I could have killed her. We make it to my room and of course I ask again about my epidural. No dice. First I need to get an IV. So I wait. I have heard people say that you forget the pain after the baby is born... THEY ARE BIG FAT LIARS. Ron leaves to check on the status of the epidural. He comes back to tell me that the response from the nurse was... "honey, they are ALL in a lot of pain." Keep in mind that all of this has happened fairly quickly. Only about an hour or so has past since I left my house. A new nicer nurse takes over. She checks me and I will never forget the look on her face. She heads straight to the phone. It's time. My doctor isn't even at the hospital yet. My hopes for an epidural are dashed. Over the phone my sweet doctor tells the nurse that if I want an epidural to call one in anyway... even though it may be too late. I am told to breathe through the contractions so that my doctor can get to the hospital. I find that hysterically funny. I try but my Luca has other plans. He has decided that now is the time an there ain't nothin' nobody can do about it. I push a couple of times. Then, like an angel, I see by doctor swoop in. He literally swooped. He, in one motion, entered the room, puts his outstretched arms through the sleeves of a sterile garb that the nurse held up, and glides the rest of the way on a wheeled stool right in front of me. Again... right out of a movie. He tells me that in two or three pushes he will be out... I reply "how about two." Luca is born. I no longer have a child... I have "children".
Luca entered this world with the same determination and uniqueness that he possesses today. He was born 12 days early. I was not expecting him quite so soon. My first born was only 1 day early so when I started feeling some mild contractions I blew them off. I had just started my maternity leave from school... taking the last six weeks off before summer vacation. I started my maternity leave two weeks before I was due. This would give me two weeks to get everything "just so" before his arrival. I remember being even a bit annoyed that I was having more Braxton Hicks... they were happening quite often for the few weeks leading up to his birth. My mom was in town and staying with us. Adrian was sleeping and my mom, Ron and I were all watching a movie. Out of frustration I told Ron that I was having false labor again. I was in no pain but could feel my belly tightening off and on. This went on for a while and my mom began to get nervous. Finally she begged.. I mean talked me into going to the hospital just to get checked out. I still wasn't in any pain but they had lasted for maybe an hour and were getting kind of regular. Maybe I was in denial... I had been dreading the delivery all along. I went upstairs to take a quick shower before we left for the hospital. While in the shower I was still letting Ron know when the contractions were starting just to keep a log to show the doctor. BAM! Within one contraction I went from 5 minutes apart to 3 minutes apart!!!!! Oh, and they were no longer pain free. Oh no... my mom was right ! :) My bag isn't packed... I'm not ready.... I was supposed to have two weeks to do this... my house is a mess... OH NOOOOOOOO! Now I am running around my bedroom throwing things into a bag in-between contractions. Ron and I then jump into the car and are on the way to the hospital. The contractions are now VERY INTENSE. It's a good thing that it is nighttime and not rush hour traffic. Ron was literally running red lights... it was like out of a movie!!!!!! I remember telling Ron in the car that I knew that my worst fear was going to come true and that it was going to be too late for an epidural. We finally make it to the hospital and enter the doors. We are greeted by a very nice elderly gentleman who is to wheel me upstairs in a wheelchair. I am now in full on labor... can't talk, can't think, can't move kind. I think that he was trying to give me a very smooth and gentle ride because he was walking me at a snails pace. I was praying that the baby wasn't going to come out on the elevator with this poor old man with me! He rolls me into triage. TRIAGE????? What, do you think I lying??? Do you think I'm faking??? Do you think I don't know what is happening??? I couldn't believe it!!!!!!! The first thing I tell the nurse is that I am having this baby and I need an epidural NOW!!!!!!! I was told that first I needed to pee in a cup and then they would take a look at me. These were the longest moments of my life. Finally she came in, checked me out, and agreed that I was in labor...thank you very much. She asks if I want to be wheeled down to my room. Thinking about my ride up to triage I opted to walk... yes walk. I walked as briskly as a 9 month pregnant woman in labor can possibly walk. At one point the nurse told me to relax and slow down. I could have killed her. We make it to my room and of course I ask again about my epidural. No dice. First I need to get an IV. So I wait. I have heard people say that you forget the pain after the baby is born... THEY ARE BIG FAT LIARS. Ron leaves to check on the status of the epidural. He comes back to tell me that the response from the nurse was... "honey, they are ALL in a lot of pain." Keep in mind that all of this has happened fairly quickly. Only about an hour or so has past since I left my house. A new nicer nurse takes over. She checks me and I will never forget the look on her face. She heads straight to the phone. It's time. My doctor isn't even at the hospital yet. My hopes for an epidural are dashed. Over the phone my sweet doctor tells the nurse that if I want an epidural to call one in anyway... even though it may be too late. I am told to breathe through the contractions so that my doctor can get to the hospital. I find that hysterically funny. I try but my Luca has other plans. He has decided that now is the time an there ain't nothin' nobody can do about it. I push a couple of times. Then, like an angel, I see by doctor swoop in. He literally swooped. He, in one motion, entered the room, puts his outstretched arms through the sleeves of a sterile garb that the nurse held up, and glides the rest of the way on a wheeled stool right in front of me. Again... right out of a movie. He tells me that in two or three pushes he will be out... I reply "how about two." Luca is born. I no longer have a child... I have "children".
Sunday, April 27
Curing Carson
My sister Emily and brother in law Jay have started a blog. They are two very funny people and I am very excited to hear all of their stories!!! I have added their blog to my favorites.
Friday, April 25
One Year LID Anniversary
Wow! There has been sooo much going on.... all good thing too... and I have not had a chance to sit and post any of it!!! Life is keeping me busy right now with the end of the school year, a new puppy, two active children, travel, and lots of birthdays.
We celebrated our 1 year log in anniversary on the 16th. We invited family over to celebrate with us. It was such a fun day! I made everyone sign our journal for Eden. What beautiful messages everyone wrote to her! My mom and dad gave us an adorable frame. So pretty... one day it will hold her picture. One whole year... wow. In so many respects it has flown by. I feel like a good amount of our wait is behind us.... I know we still have lots of waiting ahead but it is good to know that at least we are one year closer.
The next day Ron and I left for Chicago with our friends Lynn and Jim. Our adoption agency organizes an adoption conference twice per year. The conference is called East Meets West and provides adoptive parents with a wealth of information ranging from attachment, health issues, basic Mandarin, travel, etc. We arrived in Chicago a few days early to enjoy the beautiful city.
Our first night we took the train from our hotel to Chinatown. Wow... what a neat place. We went into all the little shops crammed with all things China. We also went into a grocery type market store. Upon entering there was a cut of fish laying out on the table and a few buckets with who knows what inside them.... I should have taken a picture!!!!! The smell was like nothing I have ever experienced. The smell was like a fog around the whole store building. The buildings were all asian style and the signs were written in Manderin and English. The store workers were all speaking Manderin which was neat. I found an adorable Hello Kitty chopstick/utensil set for Eden and got the boys some asian candy. It was just really cool to experience some of the sights, sounds, and smells :( we may experience in China.
We ate Penang per a recommendation from a friend of Jim's. At first we were all a bit nervous when looking at the menu... not a whole lot on it that sounded good. The food was Malaysian/Indian/Chinese. Finally we all found something we thought we might like and ordered. We could hardly understand our waitress but she was so cute and so sweet! Our food was surprisingly DELICIOUS! My favorite was the Indian pancake bread... soooo yummy!
The next day we were off to do some shopping. Our first stop was the American Girl store. Eden has an American Girl. Ron bought her one when we started the paper chase. I have never been in the actual store though. All I can say it that I can't wait to bring my Eden there!!!! What fun! There was all these little girls walking around with their moms and their dolls. There is a doll beauty shop, a restaurant, a theater, a historical area, and also a main area where they sell all the dolls, clothing, and accessories. I bought Eden the dog Coconut and a doll stand. Coconut is a white West Highland Terrier (just like our Hero!). We hit a few more shops and stopped for lunch at my FAVORITE restaurant... The Cheesecake Factory. Oh, so yummy! Lynn described it as "very Willie Wonka" and as usual our food was soooo good. We then hit another section of downtown which has a bunch of boutiques. I got Eden some cute shoes and somehow resisted getting her anything more. We were pooped by the time we got back to the hotel. We decided to go to Gibson's for dinner as it was right next to our hotel. This place was CRAZY! The portions were out of control. We were laughing so hard when they brought the food out but somehow managed to eat just about every bite!!! The best was my chocolate moose pie that was bigger than anything I have ever ordered! We even shared it with the man sitting next to us! Good friends, good food, shopping, and lots of laughs... what a day!!!! Oh... and there was a earthquake too!!!!!!
We rolled ourselves out of bed and headed down to the conference which was being held right at our hotel. I was so excited!! The first speaker was a doctor who specializes in international adoption and medicine. He had some interesting statistics and information about the health risks associated with children who are adopted internationally. Next, we attended a session on the history of China adoption. This session was lead by our agency's director Snow Wu. I have heard wonderful things about her and was really looking forward to hearing from her. Wow. I was so impressed by her straightforward, direct, honest answers to questions. I had anticipated her wanting to dance around the whole "wait time" issue but she did no such thing. She gave what facts she had and also some personal opinions. It was good to hear some of the things being done to help with the growing wait. Orphanages that have not participated in international adoption before are starting to send paperwork, babies are being referred at a very young age (show that their paperwork is being sent quickly), orphanages are bring trained in how to complete paperwork and send files for children to be adopted overseas, and we were told that CCAA is trying to find a way for children who are orphans but being raised by neighbors or family members to be part of the international adoption program. She also gave numbers as to how many dossiers are being pulled each month because families have pulled out of the program. She also clearly stated that because CCAA has no idea how many files they will be receiving each month nor do they know how many children will be abandoned each month/year... there is no way for them to give a timeline. We also attended sessions on "The Waiting Game", travel, and gotcha day. We listened to a speaker during lunch who recently took her two daughters (now preteen) back to China for a heritage trip. The day ended with a speaker form the Chinese Consulate and a orphanage director. Both I am so honored to have heard. The orphanage director brought along a video showing what life at her orphanage is like. It was really neat to get a glimpse inside. There was more shopping to be done at the conference too! I ended up buying a couple of Mandy and Pandy books with puppets (which Luca has been loving) as well as the DVD documentary about the heritage trip the lunch speaker talked about. It was just a great day and so much fun to really focus on Eden and our adoption.
Snow Wu... our agency director
We also took in a way cool blues band and some Chicago style pizza. I only gained a pound which is a miracle!
We celebrated our 1 year log in anniversary on the 16th. We invited family over to celebrate with us. It was such a fun day! I made everyone sign our journal for Eden. What beautiful messages everyone wrote to her! My mom and dad gave us an adorable frame. So pretty... one day it will hold her picture. One whole year... wow. In so many respects it has flown by. I feel like a good amount of our wait is behind us.... I know we still have lots of waiting ahead but it is good to know that at least we are one year closer.
The next day Ron and I left for Chicago with our friends Lynn and Jim. Our adoption agency organizes an adoption conference twice per year. The conference is called East Meets West and provides adoptive parents with a wealth of information ranging from attachment, health issues, basic Mandarin, travel, etc. We arrived in Chicago a few days early to enjoy the beautiful city.
Our first night we took the train from our hotel to Chinatown. Wow... what a neat place. We went into all the little shops crammed with all things China. We also went into a grocery type market store. Upon entering there was a cut of fish laying out on the table and a few buckets with who knows what inside them.... I should have taken a picture!!!!! The smell was like nothing I have ever experienced. The smell was like a fog around the whole store building. The buildings were all asian style and the signs were written in Manderin and English. The store workers were all speaking Manderin which was neat. I found an adorable Hello Kitty chopstick/utensil set for Eden and got the boys some asian candy. It was just really cool to experience some of the sights, sounds, and smells :( we may experience in China.
We ate Penang per a recommendation from a friend of Jim's. At first we were all a bit nervous when looking at the menu... not a whole lot on it that sounded good. The food was Malaysian/Indian/Chinese. Finally we all found something we thought we might like and ordered. We could hardly understand our waitress but she was so cute and so sweet! Our food was surprisingly DELICIOUS! My favorite was the Indian pancake bread... soooo yummy!
The next day we were off to do some shopping. Our first stop was the American Girl store. Eden has an American Girl. Ron bought her one when we started the paper chase. I have never been in the actual store though. All I can say it that I can't wait to bring my Eden there!!!! What fun! There was all these little girls walking around with their moms and their dolls. There is a doll beauty shop, a restaurant, a theater, a historical area, and also a main area where they sell all the dolls, clothing, and accessories. I bought Eden the dog Coconut and a doll stand. Coconut is a white West Highland Terrier (just like our Hero!). We hit a few more shops and stopped for lunch at my FAVORITE restaurant... The Cheesecake Factory. Oh, so yummy! Lynn described it as "very Willie Wonka" and as usual our food was soooo good. We then hit another section of downtown which has a bunch of boutiques. I got Eden some cute shoes and somehow resisted getting her anything more. We were pooped by the time we got back to the hotel. We decided to go to Gibson's for dinner as it was right next to our hotel. This place was CRAZY! The portions were out of control. We were laughing so hard when they brought the food out but somehow managed to eat just about every bite!!! The best was my chocolate moose pie that was bigger than anything I have ever ordered! We even shared it with the man sitting next to us! Good friends, good food, shopping, and lots of laughs... what a day!!!! Oh... and there was a earthquake too!!!!!!
We rolled ourselves out of bed and headed down to the conference which was being held right at our hotel. I was so excited!! The first speaker was a doctor who specializes in international adoption and medicine. He had some interesting statistics and information about the health risks associated with children who are adopted internationally. Next, we attended a session on the history of China adoption. This session was lead by our agency's director Snow Wu. I have heard wonderful things about her and was really looking forward to hearing from her. Wow. I was so impressed by her straightforward, direct, honest answers to questions. I had anticipated her wanting to dance around the whole "wait time" issue but she did no such thing. She gave what facts she had and also some personal opinions. It was good to hear some of the things being done to help with the growing wait. Orphanages that have not participated in international adoption before are starting to send paperwork, babies are being referred at a very young age (show that their paperwork is being sent quickly), orphanages are bring trained in how to complete paperwork and send files for children to be adopted overseas, and we were told that CCAA is trying to find a way for children who are orphans but being raised by neighbors or family members to be part of the international adoption program. She also gave numbers as to how many dossiers are being pulled each month because families have pulled out of the program. She also clearly stated that because CCAA has no idea how many files they will be receiving each month nor do they know how many children will be abandoned each month/year... there is no way for them to give a timeline. We also attended sessions on "The Waiting Game", travel, and gotcha day. We listened to a speaker during lunch who recently took her two daughters (now preteen) back to China for a heritage trip. The day ended with a speaker form the Chinese Consulate and a orphanage director. Both I am so honored to have heard. The orphanage director brought along a video showing what life at her orphanage is like. It was really neat to get a glimpse inside. There was more shopping to be done at the conference too! I ended up buying a couple of Mandy and Pandy books with puppets (which Luca has been loving) as well as the DVD documentary about the heritage trip the lunch speaker talked about. It was just a great day and so much fun to really focus on Eden and our adoption.
Snow Wu... our agency director
We also took in a way cool blues band and some Chicago style pizza. I only gained a pound which is a miracle!
Monday, April 7
April Referrals
CCAA has placed children with those logged in through January 9th, 2007. They completed 5 days this month.
Update.... Oops! I meant 2006. Wishful thinking I guess.
Update.... Oops! I meant 2006. Wishful thinking I guess.
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